Cats are strange animals. They walk in our houses like they own it, and we are often left thinking what actually goes through in their minds.
Being a cat parent, I have already heard a plethora of theories regarding these odd creatures. Therefore, for today, allow me to dispel some popular beliefs regarding cat behavior and give you the facts.
Myth 1: Cats are Loners
Let’s be honest, there are a lot of people who think that cats like being left alone. I mean, they do seem content in keeping to themselves now don’t they?
They enjoy sprawling in sun patches or sitting high on the shelf like they are kings. However, while this is somewhat true, According to experts, cats can be quite the independent ones, but they are not naturally born loners.
So, it would not be much of a surprise for you to hear that cats can actually get very attached to their owners and other pets. Have you noticed how relentlessly your cat tries to follow you from one room to the next?
This is not mere luck! It indicates that they find you delightful and would like to stay with you during fun activities. Studies have shown that cats are also happier in social settings and as they are able to communicate with others.
Additionally, active kittens observe and learn the social skills from their mothers and sibblings during their play times. That’s why it doesn’t surprise anyone when a cat tries to either wrestle other pets or fight for help to get things done (read – stepping all over you).
On the other hand, cats occasionally prefer being left alone which indicates that the cat had enough of the fun and excitement for the day!
On a final note, let us keep in mind the fact that every cat has its own set of traits. A few may be quite the ‘me’-people while others tend to be more relaxed. The essence of contentment and the need for affection can make the cat appear solitary but the reason is understandable as well.
Myth 2: Cats Purr Only When Happy
What is an animal sound that is synonymous with happiness? Or more simply put, when does a domesticated animal initiate an audible reaction?
For most of us, the foremost answer is the sound of a cat purring after a hearty meal while relaxing lazily like a natural diva on a cushioned couch, many assume it is an indication of a cat’s pleasure. In fact, a lot of humans have linked their purr to happiness – but did you know that they can also feel pain or fright? And consequently purr?
This is a new development in our understanding of our feline friends – now it is often said that when they are stuck in a particularly troublesome situation, a coup of purr is like a soothing balm for them – so this serves the same purpose.
Now purring can come across as alarming, especially for new cat parents. A comforting point to note is purring often precedes other forms of behavior so instead of waiting for an explosion of sorts, and purring precedes other actions like smacking, it is best to sit back and observe the behavioral changes.
For example, deducing if the cat is feeling anxious or frightened by evaluating the low twitching of their tail or the skins on their ears folding back.
In a nutshell, there is still much to uncover about purring that has huge implications in our understanding of its usage.
While purring is believed to be normal when bonding with other creatures, it doesn’t mean it is okay as well – research proposes it can be a subtle way of in letting someone know they are feeling discomfort – now that is the real kicker.
Myth 3: Every Cat Has An Irrational Fear of Water
To begin with, categorically, cats are not usually associated with water as a historical context or generally, for a multitude of reasons, including watching that one odd Youtube clip wherein a cat can be found chill swimming in water! But…do all cats avoid water at all costs? The answer might just not be what you presumed!
It should be pointed out, however not many know but there are domestic cats who can actually swim and some can even swim competitively.
For instance, the Turkish Van is a notable swim seeking breed. These cats are brave enough to simply jump into pools or ponds, unlike what we would expect from cats.
Even though there are pet cats who splash around in the water there are quite a few who dislike it and strongly prefer to stay away, so it’s a matter of love or preference.
Cats were specifically cultivated from many ancestors who were devoid of any water activities and who importantly lived in a desert so the odds were highly unlikely. Therefore cats typically have an abyss of psychological traits that are biologically implanted in them.
Something rather fascinating, however, is that water might be one of the reasons cats tend to avoid showers. Evolutionary Lassitude Baby or Poor Life Choices. Well, it appears cats may be nervous about rain and showers because one of their ancestors had a bad experience during the rain.
So, there you have it; while some cats are still against it (and I can see why), some cats enjoy the experience!
Myth 4: No Training is Necessary in the Case of Cats
If there are misconceptions that I want to eradicate on the spot, it is this one, which claims that cats cannot be trained. I sit on one end and I can see myself chasing my cat around while she runs for the door every time I try to leash train her, so I think I’m safe. But listen up folks.
Dogs are not the only ones that can benefit from training; our kitty witties can too! Positive reinforcement works. That is how I have trained my kitty to sit down, give me a high five and even use the litterbox—bad behavior I’m seeing you there Mr Mischief.
By doing so, we succeed in establishing correlations between actions we want our pets to execute, and rewards we will provide them once they do so. And since I’m patient and consistent, this leads us relatively closer to success.
Additionally, it helps scratch an itch that every cat parent knows, preventing their cats from scratching their wallpaper. I mean all parents out there can relate, right? But training, the right kind that gets your kitty good while keeping them busy, helps kill two birds with one stone.
I advise all the cat parents to keep in mind a prominent fact that every cat and kitten is born unique with its own set of behavioral traits and possibly shortcomings.
But rest assured, with the help of lots of love, I mean literally, there can be many—all cats can be taught and made to enjoy a shiny an interactive environment where they would be able to break a leg while trying to impress you!
Suggested Resources:
Understanding Your Cat’s Behavior
https://www.humanesociety.org/resources/understanding-your-cats-behavior
Cat Behavior Explained
https://www.aspca.org/pet-care/cat-care/cat-behavior-explained
The Truth About Purring
https://www.vetstreet.com/our-pet-experts/the-truth-about-cat-purring
How to Train Your Cat
https://www.petmd.com/cat/general-health/how-train-your-cat